How to Destroy a Nation,simple just piss them off ,or put fear in them same ,same

Its simple to destroy a nation just make them upset , it is called hypnosis , like converting an enemy thru the Stockholm syndrome , and any wife knows you can control a man if you can upset him.      i was getting sleepy driving down the road one night and suddenly my wife starts a fight with me outta the blue and i asked her why once i woke up and was well into the fight ,and she said well i was getting sleepy and she wanted me to stay awake so she pushed some buttons .   It was natural for her she didn't even have to study to think that action up so how much easier is it for a ,Son Of a Bitch (dictator ) to push peoples buttons to get what he wants ?